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Why Are so Many Women Raping Boys? Research into female perpetrated sexual violence

Time to change the paradigm on sexual violence. Research compiled by a CAFE member:

Why Are so Many Women Raping Boys?

Women Need To Be Educated About Sexual Consent, Right Now They Aren’t

“43% of high school boys and young college men reported they had an unwanted sexual experience and of those, 95% said a female acquaintance was the aggressor.”

Nearly Half of Young Men Say They’ve Had Unwanted Sex. New study says it’s possible for women to rape men: 18% of surveyed guys say women used physical force to make them have sex against their will

http://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/men-a0035915.pdf

Rape Happens Almost Just as Often to Men

More women (97.5%) than men (93.5%) had experienced unwanted sexual activity; more men (62.7%) than women (46.3%) had experienced unwanted intercourse

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22375635

Almost Half Of Young Men Sexually Coerced

Men often coerced into sex: study

http://www.nationalpost.com/news/story.html?id=f926b44a-39c9-4c7d-bc44-24001f40c213

Almost Half of Teen Boys and Young Men Have Been Sexually Coerced

43% of high school boys and young college men reported they had an unwanted sexual experience, and 95% reported that a female acquaintance was the aggressor.

http://powderroom.jezebel.com/almost-half-of-teen-boys-and-young-men-have-been-sexual-1556730508

The Sexual Abuse of Boys Is Not About “Getting Lucky” and We Need to Stop Promoting This Myth

Female teachers: The sex offenders no one suspects

Additional lists of female teacher sexual predators:

http://www.lawfirms.com/female-teacher-sex-crime-offenders-…

http://www.wnd.com/2013/12/39783/

http://crime.about.com/od/sex/ig/female_pedophiles/

When Women Sexually Assault Men

How gendered cultural scripts help conceal and laugh away a legitimate problem.

http://www.psmag.com/politics-and-law/women-sexually-assault-men-92099

Rape Is Rape, Even When the Teacher Is a Woman

When Predators Are Women

PEDOPHILES: NO GENDER BIAS!! Women Who Sexually Abuse Children

The Female Paedophile

Many Young Males Report Unwanted Sex

Female acquaintance was the aggressor in majority of cases, U.S. study finds

Hurt twice: Society questions validity of male sex assault, domestic violence victims

http://www.mlive.com/news/grand-rapids/index.ssf/2015/03/male_victims.html

WOMEN HARASSING MEN

Complaints about women bosses preying on men have doubled since 1990. What’s going on out there?

http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/advice/a1523/women-harassing-men-1/

How Are Female Sex Offenders Different From Male Sex Offenders?

Female Teacher – Student Sex Crime Cases are Being Exposed

It wasn’t that long ago that female on male sexual violence wouldn’t have resulted in criminal charges at all. Believe it or not, in some states in America the law is so biased against male victims that it doesn’t even recognize female on male sexual assaults. Canadian law enforcement is no better. There exists a clear and wide disparity between the sentencing of convicted female and male sex offenders. Here are some of the females accused and/or convicted of sex crimes against children.

http://www.canadiancrc.com/FEMALE_TEACHER_SEX_OFFENDERS-
SEXUAL_ASSAULT_Female_Sexual_Predators-RAPE_MALES.aspx

UNODC report on human trafficking exposes modern form of slavery

In 30% of the countries which provided information on the gender of traffickers, women make up the largest proportion of traffickers.

https://www.unodc.org/unodc/en/human-trafficking/global-report-on-trafficking-in-persons.html

Police: Teenage girls in Maryland use knife to force autistic boy to perform sex acts

5 Bizarre Realities of Being a Man Who Was Raped by a Woman

Sexual Victimization Among Male College Students: Assault Severity, Sexual Functioning, and Health Risk Behaviors

Jessica A. Turchik Veterans Affairs Palo Alto Health Care System and Stanford University Medical School

http://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/features/men-13-3-243.pdf

Female teachers with students

http://mobile.wnd.com/2014/08/39783/

Lists of Female Teachers and Student Sex Crime Scandals

http://www.wnd.com/2014/08/39783/

Sexual abuse by women of children and teens is a subject most parents and caregivers are not familiar with. Female sexual predators go unreported because of a lack of awareness by the public.

Canadian Children’s Rights Council

http://www.canadiancrc.com/Female_Sex_Offenders-Female_Sexual_Predators_awareness.aspx

The Sexual Victimization of Men in America: New Data Challenge Old Assumptions

We have seen an era where sex abuse allegations against women have been ignored or ridiculed. Yet, we begin to see that women may not only molest children as much as men, but even MORE than men.

http://thepatriotdad.wordpress.com/do-women-molest-children-more-than-men/

List of Women Arrested for Indecent Behavior With Kids

http://crime.about.com/od/sex/ig/female_pedophiles/

Female sex offenders trigger similar trauma in victims as male sex attackers

Female Sex Offenders – Survivors Safehouse

Female Sex Offenders – Survivors Safehouse

Bibliography (by year)

http://www.femalesexoffenders.org/bibliography-by-year

A rape epidemic — by women

New CDC report reveals troubling equality when it comes to sexual assault rates

Sexual Victimization by Women in Juvenile Facilities Reported by Youth, 2008-09

A study was released by the D.O.J on the 2008-2009 reporting period showed that children incarcerated in juvenile facilities were sexually molested by women slightly more than 95% of the time while male staff accounted for only 4.6% of the sexual molestation of the minors incarcerated who reported sexual abuse. http://bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/svjfry09.pdf

Here is an updated survey

Female prison officers commit 90pc of sex assaults on male teens in US juvenile detention centres

How It Can Be Different for Men

The most important way: Unwanted and abusive sexual experiences totally contradict the masculine ideal.

https://1in6.org/men/get-information/online-readings/masculinity-self-esteem-and-identity/how-it-can-be-different-for-men/

Double standard seen when boys abused by women

Female Perpetrators & Male Sexual Abuse Victims: Society’s Betrayal of Boys

http://kalimunro.com/wp/articles-info/sexual-emotional-abuse/male-sexual-abuse-victims-of-female-perpetrators

Why Do Female Prison Guards Keep Having Sex with Inmates?

Study: 10 Percent of U.S. Youths Cause Sexual Violence

Gang rape is more commonly done by girls. ” Females are also more likely to engage in “gang rape” types of activity and act in groups or teams (1 in 5 females reported this type of activity, compared with 1 in 39 males).

http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2013/10/131007-sexual-violence-rape-teenagers-sociology/

The first-person accounts posted on Reddit by survivors of sexual abuse have many familiar elements. They recount post-traumatic stress and emotional damage, the sexual dysfunction and difficulties forming relationships, and – most commonly – the disbelief and victim-blaming that greet attempts to report or share the details, even with trusted friends. The only difference with the hundreds of stories shared on one remarkable, often heartbreaking thread is that all were from men, recounting their abuse by women

Breaking the wall of secrecy on the sexual abuse of men by women

“48 Hours” investigates sex abuse by women teachers

Children most often killed by mothers

New Zealand mothers kill more children than any other group in society and men are victims of domestic violence as often as women, a police investigation has found.

Full Episode: Raped by His Mother Video

The CDC’s Rape Numbers Are Misleading

Men reported being “made to penetrate” at virtually the same rates as women reported rape

http://time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/

New DOJ Data On Sexual Assaults: College Students Are Actually Less Likely To Be Victimized

http://thefederalist.com/2014/12/11/new-doj-data-on-sexual-assaults-college-students-are-actually-less-likely-to-be-victimized/

The Ultimate Taboo: Child Sexual abuse by women. The Sexual Abuse by Women of Children and Teenagers. A surprising 86% of survivors of sexual abuse were not believed when they said the abuser was a woman.

http://www.canadiancrc.com/newspaper_articles/BBC_Child_sexual_abuse_by_women_06OCT97.aspx

Up to 64,000 women in UK ‘are child-sex offenders’

New CDC report reveals troubling equality when it comes to sexual assault rates.

Female Sexual Predators with Multiple Victims

Against his will: Female-on-male rape

http://www.cnn.com/2013/10/09/living/chris-brown-female-on-male-rape/

Nearly half of SA boys raped

An astonishing 44 percent of South African school-aged boys have been forced to have sex. And even more shocking: most of the perpetrators were women.

http://www.health24.com/Parenting/Child/News/Nearly-half-of-SA-boys-raped-20120721

13,915 reasons for equity in sexual offences legislation: A national school-based survey in South Africa.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18664250

Girl on Guy Rape

http://www.vocativ.com/underworld/crime/hard-truth-girl-guy-rape/

Why Rape of Man by a Woman Is Sincerely Hilarious – NOT

Rape, Sexual Assault and Molestation by Women

http://www.femalesexoffenders.org/

Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, Don’t Think About It The unstated rules for male victims of female-perpetrated

sexual abuse and assault

http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/dean-esmay/dont-ask-dont-tell-dont-t_b_6153578.html?utm_hp_ref=tw

REFERENCES EXAMINING ASSAULTS BY WOMEN ON THEIR SPOUSES OR MALE PARTNERS: AN

ANNOTATED BIBLIOGRAPHY

http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2014/11/06/domestic-violence-against-men_n_6034406.html

Gloria Allred suing high school for alleged treatment of male sexual abuse victims

http://www.washingtonexaminer.com/article/2556024

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Table 3–13 Victims by Perpetrator Relationship, 2012

Perpetrator Victims %

Father 127,654 18.7

Father and Other 6,399 0.9

Mother 250,553 36.6

Mother and Other 40,495 5.9

Mother and Father 132,557 19.4

Total Parents 557,658 81.5

Based on data from 47 States

Table 4–4 Child Fatalities by Perpetrator Relationship, 2012

Father 200 17.1

Father and Other 25 2.1

Mother 318 27.1

Mother and Other 147 12.5

Mother and Father 248 21.2

Total Parents 938 80.0

Based on data from 41 States

http://www.acf.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/cb/cm2012.pdf

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Florida Female Sex Offenders and Female Sex Predators

http://www.floridapredators.com/FemaleSexOffenders.aspx

On the symmetry of rape:

http://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/…/high…/

http://www.slate.com/…/male_rape_in_america_a_new_study…

https://1in6.org/…/mas…/how-it-can-be-different-for-men/

http://news.nationalgeographic.com/…/131007-sexual…/

http://time.com/…/nearly-half-of-young-men-say-theyve…/

http://guardianlv.com/…/rape-happens-almost-just-as…/

http://time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/

Children most often killed by mothers

New Zealand mothers kill more children than any other group in society and men are victims of domestic

violence as often as women, a police investigation has found.

http://www.odt.co.nz/news/national/227441/children-most-often-killed-mothers

Can Women Be Sexual Predators? Once a Taboo, Now an Open Secret

http://www.modernmanjack.com/after-thoughts/2014/9/11/can-women-be-sexual-predators-once-a-taboo-now-an-
open-secret

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21 Comments

  • Dave DeGeus
    Jan 10, 2016 at 08:49 pm

    I am a male survivor of a female rapist. The rape itself isn’t as bad as the torture that a man goes through after the rape is done. There was evidence but nobody would look at it. There was witnesses to the planning and the act but the police refused to contact them. My life has been dismantled. I do what I can to deal with the endless depression. I’ve started a blog to express my anger and pain. You can read about me at http://www.thejoyoffamilycourt.com it you are interested. Not many are but I’d like to hear from other who have experienced the same kind of trauma and recovered, or not.

    • admin
      Jan 11, 2016 at 09:17 am

      Hi Dave,

      I would like to learn more and to offer assistance. Where are you located? We may be able to offer you trauma support as well as lobby on your behalf to police authorities who are not taking your situation seriously. Please email me jtrottier@equalitycanada.com or feel free to call our office at 647-479-9611.

      Best,
      Justin

  • gush
    Feb 18, 2016 at 03:42 pm

    I expected anos answer.

  • CanadianGuy
    Feb 18, 2016 at 04:46 pm

    THANK YOU!!!

    i have saved this info and will be using it in conversation and sharing as much as I can!

  • Bryan Donovan Jr
    Mar 11, 2016 at 08:59 pm

    I think ending the taboo of this information being out in the public is invaluable to our society moving forward.

    The disbelief of Male victims of sexual abuse is only a symptom of a larger overall root cause. The cause – as it’s being portrayed daily in politics, pop culture, social media, etc. – is the current narrative in our culture of “inequality”.

    The narrative that: if you are “White” and “Male” , then Power and Wealth are your gifts at birth. The cause of all “inequality”.. Is the White males who rule society by holding down and victimizing all other demographics.

    It is true, that much of the powerful and wealthy are white males. But the fact remains the most powerful man in the world right now happens to be black, and soon may be a woman, shows the narrative is not true as portrayed.

    In fact, I would argue that the MOST HELPLESS VICTIMS in our society today.. are actually white males.
    “No way! Not true! HOW?”
    Because if you are a white MALE you are ALWAYS viewed as the VICTIMIZER, and so never as the VICTIM.
    Think about it.. there is NOTHING society has less empathy for than white MALES. Even animals and plants receive more empathy and compassion, with countless activist groups that fight on their behalf. Meanwhile, Male Rights Activists and Advocates groups get attacked constantly! Society has almost completely abandoned Males. Mocking, blaming, denying, and as far as in many ways even being capable of being victims of certain crimes (like being RAPED).

  • Realist
    Mar 24, 2016 at 03:58 pm

    This site is biased bullshit. When are they going to talk about male on male violence that is the root cause of most male deaths?

    Almost all the studies here are cherrypicked and intrepreted with distortion. Apparently OP doesn’t know what is a good vs bad study .For example,

    Journal of Psychology of Men & Masculinity –

    Sexual Coercion Context and Psychosocial Correlates Among
    Diverse Males

    Physical force Using physical
    aggression or
    blocking exits for
    sex
    “. . . I was pushed into
    a bathroom by a girl
    and she started
    kissing me until I
    made her stop and
    explained that I didn’t
    like her like that

    —- Are you kidding me? No one with a sensible mind would consider this as sexual assault simply for the fact that this event elicited no sense of fear, stress, injury or victimized psychology. These are just merely self-reports of incidents in which no account of the report’s victimhood status was taken into account. That is the problem with these studies, that they compare such low magnitude of “assault” against men which MRAs then use to falsely compare that men are just as raped as the woman “who was forced into a locker and physically constrained into forced penetration” the type of violent rape reported in the media everyday).

    It really is a disgrace and a dishonest tactic in making these false comparisons. My thought is, men who have experienced these kind of high school incidents of girls kissing them even when they didn’t want to do not actually care. There are gender differences in the way we respond to sexual encounters which is why men aren’t filled up at trauma centers trying to have personal therapy on how much vicitmized he felt when was kissed by a girl. MRAs are oblivious to all of this.

    • admin
      Mar 25, 2016 at 01:21 pm

      Just to be clear, you’re saying men who have experienced the exact same kinds of sexual incidents that are certainly sexual assault should they happen to women, that those are not actual cases of sexual assault when they happen to men? If that’s your point then it sounds like you are basing your judgement on sexist stereotypes that this organization is committed to eradicating, and that you are also generalizing that all men have the same response toward sexual misconduct committed against them. And if a female teacher engages in sexual behaviour with an under age student, do you also think that that is acceptable?

  • John Mayor
    Apr 18, 2016 at 11:59 pm

    CHRIST, NATURE, PORN AGE OF MAJORITY DOGMA, AND THE LAW
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    In a 2015 “EduNet Webinar” presented on Thursday, May 14th, 2015, by Kenneth V. Lanning, former Supervisory Special Agent for the Federal Bureau of Investigation (retired), titled, “Compliant Child Victims: Confronting an Uncomfortable Reality”, Mr. Lanning states (in his synopsis of his presentation)…
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    “In this presentation, the term compliant will be used to describe those children who in any way, partially or fully, cooperate in or ‘consent’ to their sexual victimization without the threat of use of force or violence. Because children cannot legally consent to having sex with adults, this compliance should not in any way alter the fact that they can be victims of serious crimes. The primary purpose of this discussion is to being out into the open possible reasons for this compliance (i.e., grooming and seduction) and to discuss its complexity and significance for child victims and professional interveners.”
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    Mr. Kenneth V. Lanning, is described as an M.S., and a consultant in the area of crimes against children. He was a Special Agent with the FBI for more than 30 years and was assigned to the FBI Behavioral Science Unit at the FBI Academy for 20 of those years. Mr. Lanning is the 1990 recipient of the Jefferson Award for Research from the University of Virginia, the 1996 recipient of the Outstanding Professional Award for Research from the American Professional Society on the Abuse of Children, the 1997 recipient of the FBI Director’s Annual Award for Special Achievement for his career accomplishments in connection with missing and exploited children, and the 2009 recipient of the Lifetime Achievement Award for Outstanding Service from the National Children’s Advocacy Center. He has lectured before thousands of criminal justice professionals.
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    For my purposes here, let me begin by revisiting Mr. Lanning’s synopsis… and his synopsis alone… to determine whether this “Expert (so said)” is on sure footing, re his “rationale” for his “synoptic assertions”! So… to reiterate… Mr. Lanning states…
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    “In this presentation, the term compliant will be used to describe those ‘CHILDREN’ who IN ANY WAY, PARTIALLY or FULLY, ‘COOPERATE IN (and I’ll add here… maybe INSTIGATE?)’ or ‘CONSENT’ to their ‘SEXUAL VICTIMIZATION’ without the threat of use (I believe he meant, ‘of the use’) of force or violence. Because ‘CHILDREN’ CANNOT ‘LEGALLY CONSENT’ to having sex with adults (and I’ll add here… due to UNCONSTITUTIONAL Age of Majority, and Age of Consent Laws!), this COMPLIANCE SHOULD NOT IN ANY WAY ALTER THE ‘FACT’ that they can be ‘VICTIMS’ of serious ‘crimes’. The primary purpose of this discussion is to being out (I believe he meant, ‘bring out’) into the open POSSIBLE ‘REASONS’ for this COMPLIANCE (i.e., ‘GROOMING AND SEDUCTION’!) and to discuss its ‘COMPLEXITY’ and significance for ‘CHILD VICTIMS’ and professional interveners (I believe he meant, ‘professional intervenOrs’).”
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    What unbelievable SOPHISTRY!… and one wonders why there is so much strife in America!… and around the world!
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    He begins by asserting– and unequivocally (i.e., without prequalifications)– that ALL OF THOSE to be discussed (his said “VICTIMS”!) are “CHILDREN (i.e.– and in his view– ARE NOT ‘ADULTS’!… or, ARE NOT TO BE VIEWED AS HAVING A ‘RIGHT’ TO ‘SEXUAL AGENCY’!… or, ANY ‘AUTONOMOUS POWER OF SEXUAL SELF-DETERMINATION’!)”! He then goes on to state, that the term “COMPLIANT” will be used to describe those “CHILDREN” who, “IN ANY WAY”, PARTIALLY or FULLY, “COOPERATE IN”, or “CONSENT TO” their “SEXUAL VICTIMIZATION” without the threat of use of force or violence.
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    Wow!… what a MIND-F–T (to coin a phrase!)!
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    So… to restate Mr. Lanning’s perspective (at this juncture)… if these “CHILDREN” “COMPLY”!… “IN ANY WAY (but… maybe!… PROMULGATE!… and e.g., with words such as, ‘Sure!… let’s get it on!’… or… ‘Let’s do it!’)”!… “PARTIALLY OR FULLY” “COOPERATE IN”, or “CONSENT” (WITHOUT THE THREAT OF USE OF FORCE OR VIOLENCE!)”!… SEXUAL VICTIMIZATION, WILL– NEVERTHELESS!– BE MR. LANNING’S PREFERRED VIEW (AND “CATCH PHRASE”!), FOR SUCH “COMPLIANCE”!
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    He next adds, because “CHILDREN” CANNOT “LEGALLY CONSENT” to having sex with adults (i.e., and e.g., until such “UNDERAGERS” give Mr. Lanning, and his minions, a swift kick to somewhere unpleasant– “metaphorically speaking!”– through a series of Constitutional challenges!), this “COMPLIANCE” SHOULD NOT IN ANY WAY ALTER THE “FACT (i.e., his PERVERSE VIEW of the ‘FACTS’ of many!… if not most!… of the scenarios he is depicting!)” that they can be “VICTIMS” of serious “CRIMES (i.e., if such PERVERSE VIEWS in many!– if not most!– of these scenarios are viewed, irresponsibly, as ‘CRIMES’!)”.
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    He concludes his “synopsis” by stating, that the primary purpose of the “DISCUSSION” is to– and again, I’ll correct his “verbiage”– “bring out” into the open “POSSIBLE REASONS” for this “COMPLIANCE (i.e., and in his view, ‘GROOMING AND SEDUCTION’!… and– I’m guessing– he means, by way of the ‘adult’!)”, and to discuss its “COMPLEXITY (i.e., code for, ‘Let’s not say it’s mutually agreed upon sex!’… or… sex initiated by way of ‘CHILDREN!’)” and significance (i.e., “MEANING”!) for “CHILD VICTIMS (i.e., if any, indeed, exist!… and, if any ‘CHILDREN’ aren’t being FORCIBLY CONNED into viewing themselves as ‘VICTIMS’!… through threats of imprisonment, and/ or other acts of ‘PSYCHOPATHIC INSTITUTIONAL VIOLENCE’!)” and professional intervenOrs (i.e., and– in MY VIEW!… and in many instances!… “PROFESSIONAL BUSYBODIES!”… or, “PSEUDO-PROFESSIONAL ‘SOCIO-SEXUAL GATEKEEPERS'”!).
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    WOW, WOW, WOW!… if it wasn’t for NONSENSE, this chap wouldn’t have much sense at all! And it kind of reminds me of the 60s and 70s war… now recognized as a FAILED WAR!… on drugs (see, America’s Top Cops Just Called the War on Drugs ‘A Tremendous Failure’)…
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    It’s one thing to champion the fight against TRUE VICTIMIZATION, and to offer aid to those who are in NEED of “DEFENCE”!… and, who, CANNOT defend themselves! But, it’s quite another, to INTERFERE in the NORMAL AFFAIRS of others!… and others, who ACCEPT THEIR MUTUALLY-AGREED UPON RELATIONSHIP, AND LOVE!… and who are FULLY AWARE OF, AND AGREE TO, THEIR DIFFERENCES IN AGE!
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    Porn by males or females under the age of 18 (although, respective communities have raised this age restriction higher) is not allowed on the Internet. There are, however– CLEARLY!– “COMMERCIAL EXCEPTIONS” to this rule (i.e., if there is a profit to be made, and “ELITE ENJOYMENT” to be had, certain URLs will remain wholly unaffected!)… and, despite International and National Laws, International and National Courts, International and National Policing efforts, Internet and Social Protocol, and Advocacies!
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    The horrendous sexual abuses against children notwithstanding (and e.g., the murder of children for “SEXUAL ENTERTAINMENT”!), there are a few sound reasons for abandoning what I call, “THE PORN AGE OF MAJORITY DOGMA (or ‘THE PAM DOGMA’)”, on the Internet… and, in Society!
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    Let me begin by pointing out, that females under the age of 18 (throughout the world… and one– reportedly!– as young as 5 years of age!) can– BIOLOGICALLY!– have babies! Moreover, and most importantly, many who are pre 18 have CHOSEN to have babies (which is their granted Human Right, under various International, and National Constitutions… and other Legislated frameworks!)! “A COMPLETELY NATURAL FUNCTION AND PHENOMENON!” In other words, we (or at least, females under the age of 18!), are “BORN THIS WAY (i.e., are able to give birth!)”!
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    The question– though– is whether… as an “UNDERAGE” female individual!… one is “ENTITLED” to one’s own “SEXUAL AGENCY (see: Sexual Agency_Making Decisions)”! But further, and again… as an “UNDERAGE” female individual… does one have the RIGHT (HUMAN RIGHT!) to “FREELY CHOOSE” THE AGE OF THE PARTNER WITH WHOM ONE HAS DETERMINED TO COPULATE WITH (and not by way of the “Agency” of one’s “adult parents”… “other adults (e.g., Guardians!)”!… and/ or, the Agency of “non-familial institutions, and organizations”!)? And yea… and yet further… does such an individual (unless, and of course, such is not to be viewed as an individual!) have the Right to “ENJOY”– “AND WITH GUSTO!”– the act of GIVING LIFE (and, God forbid!– should “underage” female “SEXUAL ENJOYMENT” ever be ALLOWED!– we “GRANT” the corollary foreplay!… so often accompanying “NORMAL SEX ACTS” usually associated with “ADULT SEX”!)!
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    Thus, are we (us adults) to say: “OMG!… How perverse is God, nature– or both– in permitting the minds and bodies of these ‘poor young things’ to bear, and to give birth, to yet smaller children?” “What was God– and/or nature– thinking?” “Has God– and/ or nature (individually, or in some GRAND CONSPIRACY!)– set out to ‘P-SS US OFF (i.e., ‘WE’… ‘ADULTS!’… WHO KNOW BETTER THAN GOD, AND/ OR NATURE!)’?”
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    But some will say, that… and unlike sleeping, breathing, eating, drinking and waste elimination… “WE (i.e., those adults speaking on behalf of all ‘TRULY’ ‘MATURE ADULTS’, and, on behalf of the ‘MISGUIDED’ ‘UNDERAGE FEMALES’ of the world!… but!… usually ‘PROFFERING’!)” CAN SIMPLY ‘CHOOSE’ NOT TO GIVE BIRTH TO ‘UNDER-UNDERAGE CHILDREN’!” Inasmuch– these continue– as “WE (and… again!… ‘AS IF’ on behalf of all ‘TRULY’ ‘MATURE ADULTS’… and… all ‘MISGUIDED’ ‘UNDERAGE FEMALES’ of earth!) CAN ‘CHOOSE’ to ‘ACCEPT’ THAT ‘IMMATURE SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS’ ARE ‘UNHEALTHY!’… AND ‘UNWISE (but, ‘CODE’, for, ‘OUR’ ‘ADULT SOCIAL NORM’ SHALL HOLD SWAY OVER GOD, NATURE– OR BOTH!)’!” “After all, it’s ‘WE’ (THE VOICES OF WISDOM!) who can, and ‘WHO MUST DICTATE’, the lives of the ‘MISGUIDED’ of the world (i.e., ALL ‘OTHER ADULTS’ WHO DO NOT VIEW THINGS AS WE DO; ALL ‘UNDERAGE FEMALES’; AND– OF COURSE– GOD, NATURE– OR BOTH!)!” Albeit, BY FORCE! “And– these add!– LET US NEVER FORGET THIS!”… “AMEN!”
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    Now– of course– young souls of just 10 years (e.g.), would find it quite difficult to bring into the world… and to care for… babies! H–l!… even adults of 50 years of age have found this tasking! Indeed!… some “ADULTS” have been unable to care for plants, or animals!… or, even THEMSELVES! And, as a consequence, such lacks in “THESE ADULTS”, have meant that their progeny are “equally inept” in caring for plants, or animals!… yea, THE WORLD! And hence, the reason– “I” feel– that “CERTAIN ADULTS” may disallow “FREE REIGN” by “OTHERS”, over “THEIR” “WORLD ORDER (and, even by way, of ‘THEIR OWN’ FLESH AND BLOOD!)”!
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    But who (or what) is to be held to account for any lack in “Domestic Skills”– let alone, “Self-sufficiency”, and “Intrapersonal and Interpersonal Behavioral Competency”– within those who are beneath the Age of Majority, when our views at home… and within our educational systems!… would preclude any entrenchment of such skills for those who are beneath the age, of our Age of Majority DICTUM (see: “The Death of Psychiatry”, by Dr. Edwin Fuller Torrey)? If one doesn’t view “UNDERAGE SEX” and relationships” as “NORMAL”, one isn’t inclined to be “PROACTIVE” in giving those deemed “UNDERAGE”, the skill sets afforded to those deemed “AGEWORTHY”! And if these skill sets are not to be put within our schools… despite the gaps (and “MADNESS”!) in home settings!… then where is such “preparedness”, to be found?
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    And so, who, then (and/ or what) is to blame, if a child of 10 (e.g.) chooses to defy/ challenge the “ADULT SOCIAL NORM”? Is it the Child?… God?… nature?… or all three? Surely!… it can’t be the “ADULTS (i.e., ‘CERTAIN ADULTS’!)”, and “THEIR” “ADULT SOCIAL NORM”!
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    Let us now look at another set of truths!… in our “HONEST ATTEMPT” to examine the RIGHTS, we– as “MATURE ADULTS”!– should “BESTOW UPON”… or, remove from!… our “CHILDREN”!… AND THE “CHILDREN” OF OTHERS! TRUTHS to be found, in the writings of our Judaic/ Christian heritage!
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    One example, is a quote attributed to Jesus Christ!… and, which states: “TRULY I TELL YOU, UNLESS YOU CHANGE, AND BECOME LIKE LITTLE CHILDREN, YOU (‘ADULTS’!… my emphasis!) WILL NEVER ENTER INTO THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN!” [Matthew 18:3 – NIV]
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    Now… is Christ saying, that we (“adults”!… generally speaking!) must become “CHILDISH”?… or acquire some “GENETIC MAKEOVER”? Of course not! He is speaking of the PURE, and GENTLE NATURE, that children possess! And so, the question for us “CHRISTIAN ADULTS”, is: “How does this ‘CHILD-LIKE MENTALITY (and ‘SPIRIT’!)’ translate– for example– in intimate situations?… when it comes to our intimacy with our partner?… intimacy, in the bedroom (or wherever)?” If “CHRISTIAN ADULTS” are to become LIKE CHILDREN!… and in the bedroom (or wherever)!… are we not then treating our sexual partner (IN CHRIST!) in the bedroom– or wherever!– as if our partner was a “CHILD”? And, if your partner is to be as if a “CHILD” to you (and you a “CHILD” to your partner!… IN CHRIST!), then what’s the difference between that, and being intimate with– say– someone “UNDERAGE (i.e., someone who has initiated… or, who has ‘FREELY ACCEPTED’, such mutual intimacy!… and, who has ACCEPTED CHRIST!)”? Or, is it– simply– that by mere difference in age (and possibly, PHYSICAL STATURE!)”, the “CHILD-LIKE” intimacy between an “ADULT” and an actual “CHILD (IN CHRIST!)”, must be looked upon as an “UN-ADULT_E-RATED EVIL”!… AND, AN “UNHOLY” THING!
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    And here, I’m reminded of the words of St. Paul, who stated: “TO THE PURE, ALL THINGS ARE PURE, BUT TO THOSE WHO ARE CORRUPTED AND DO NOT BELIEVE, NOTHING IS PURE! IN FACT, BOTH THEIR MINDS, AND CONSCIENCES, ARE CORRUPTED!” [Titus 1:5 – NIV] And also, the words of Christ… who said: “VERILY I SAY UNTO YOU, ALL SINS SHALL BE FORGIVEN UNTO THE SONS OF MEN, AND BLASPHEMIES WHEREWITH SOEVER THESE SHALL BLASPHEME: BUT HE THAT SHALL BLASPHEME AGAINST THE HOLY GHOST HATH NEVER FORGIVENESS, BUT IS IN DANGER OF ETERNAL DAMNATION:… (i.e., and to paraphrase… and in the context of the just aforegoing!… ONE WHO ACCUSES SOMEONE IN CHRIST OF HAVING A ‘PERVERSE SPIRIT’ BY VIRTUE OF A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS NOT WITHIN THE CONVENTIONS OF ‘THE WORLD’, MAY BE JUDGED BY GOD, AS BEING IN BREACH OF GOD’S HOLY SPIRIT!)!” [MARK, 3:28/29 – KJV]
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    Therefore, is one ready to say… WITH ALL CERTAINTY!… that the intimacy that one might encounter between souls who are “BEYOND THE ADULT SOCIAL NORM (and between– potentially, and unwittingly!– those who’ve accepted Jesus Christ, and his Holy Spirit!)”, is– ACTUALLY!– INDICATIVE OF “EVIL”?… and rather, than an intimacy– INDEED!– SANCTIONED BY GOD? And, will “WE” find (i.e., “CERTAIN ADULT PURVEYORS” OF THE “ADULT SOCIAL NORM” AND “PAM DOGMA”!), that the “INTERFERENCE” in which (and by REPROBATE LIVES!… who’ve no semblance of the TRUTH!… and, who’ve rejected God’s love!…and/ or, GOD!), may– one day– owe a hefty price, for having judged so unwisely! And, indeed, will “CERTAIN ADULTS” be judged among those who have caused the deaths of both adults and children (in isolated incidents!… OR IN CONCERT WITH “SOCIAL POLICY”!) who have “STRAYED” from the “DICTATES” of the “ADULT SOCIAL NORM”, of their time?
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    On another theme… if one is a Jewish male (and 13), then one gets to become an “OFFICIAL ADULT” through what is known, as a Barmitzvah! Similarly, if one is a Jewish female, and 13, then one gets to become an “OFFICIAL ADULT” through what is described as a Batmitzvah!
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    Simply said, it would be a sad jest to say to a Jewish female “ADULT” of 13, or Jewish male “ADULT” of 13: “You are ‘recognized’ through Jewish custom as an ‘ADULT’ Jewish female (or an ‘ADULT’ Jewish male)… but (‘GOD FORBID!’), that you should– ‘EVER!’– become sexually intimate with another ‘ADULT’ of 13!… or, worse, that you should– ‘EVER!’– (AND, ‘DOUBLE’ THE GOD FORBIDDANCES!) become sexually intimate with someone ‘BEYOND THE AGE OF MAJORITY’!”
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    And so… simply said… when a Jewish male or female became an “ADULT” through his/ her Jewish faith, and Synagogue, this meant that such “REALLY BECAME” an “ADULT”!– and, not just “SYMBOLICALLY”, and “CEREMONIALLY (or ‘METAPHORICALLY’!)”! Otherwise, such a Rite– in my view– would be tantamount to CHILD ABUSE (i.e., in leading a ‘CHILD’ to believe in one’s ‘ADULT RITE OF PASSAGE’, then– at once– stating that such is not to be taken SERIOUSLY!)!
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    But what about the rest of us? Do we not have equal status under the law? And, if a Jewish male of 13, or a Jewish female of 13, were found making out with a person over the stated Age of Majority, would such not suffer the consequences of our Age of Majority laws? And, if such were found in violation of our laws, wouldn’t our laws be in conflict with “their” “RELIGIOUS FREEDOMS”? Or, could it be, that such “Religious Freedoms” are in conflict with our laws?… and “public morality”? It begs the question! And as a final footnote to the just aforesaid, I should/ would have you note, that “PRETEENS (i.e., souls younger than 13)” once ruled Israel! God!… go figure! Or… go figure GOD!
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    But further, and on yet a different theme, there are a significant number of young teens (“under the Age of Majority!”) who are a part of sundry GRADUATE PROGRAMS in Medicine, Engineering, Mathematics, Computer Science, and many other highly specialized, and professional fields of endeavour (see, Why This 14-Year-Old Kid Built a Nuclear Reactor…). And so, are we to say– and for example– to a gal of 15 in a 3rd year GRADUATE MEDICAL PROGRAM (and, who, in a couple of years, could be treating you– or I– in some regional hospital), that she can become a doctor… but, “KEEP YOUR PANTIES ON (‘LITTLE GIRL!’)”! And… “If you (‘LITTLE GIRL!’) are found having sex with that graduate of 22 in Computer Science across town, ‘WE’ (i.e., the ‘ADULT SOCIAL NORM’, and AUTHORS OF THE ‘PORN AGE OF MAJORITY DOGMA’!), will place him behind bars– ‘FOR RAPE!’– insult you (and your ‘SICK CLAN’!), and jeopardize (if ‘WE’ can) your hopes and dreams!” “After all… such little ‘sex maniacs’ are just dim witted ‘ijits’ for even considering having sex with ‘AGE OF MAJORITY’ grad students (say, the AUTHORS OF THE ‘ADULT SOCIAL NORM’!)… and… ‘WE’ WILL HAVE NONE OF SUCH ‘FILTH’, IN ‘OUR’ ‘WORLD SOCIAL ORDER’!”
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    Now… imagine the abovenoted, with the following added features! The gal and young man of which I speak, are Jewish. Now add, that these, have recently become “Christian”! Now, also include, that the parents of both of these young people have all agreed to this relationship!… and, have offered, that whatever resources the two so desire and need– all being professionals themselves!– will be made available to their charges!… and should their charges’ relationship grow!… and the young female becomes pregnant! I ask you: “Is it the role of the ‘ADULT SOCIAL NORM’… afterupon the finding of some deemed breach of the community’s Age of Majority law/ Age of Consent Law!… to now DEMAND (AND WITH AS MUCH ZEAL AS THE HUNT FOR FINANCIAL WRONGDOING BY THE BANKING COMMUNITY, IN THE 2008 BANKING SCANDAL!) that these ‘WAYWARD PARENTS’ pay some ‘PENALTY’ for this ‘FILTHY BEHAVIOUR’ that these have allowed into the lives of their offspring?… and, in addition to the price to be paid by these ‘IMMATURE IMMORAL DEGENERATES, AND THREATS TO SOCIETY’?” “I THINK NOT!” Indeed, CURSED IS/ BE THE SPIRIT, AND THE GOD OF THE SPIRIT, THAT CALLOUSLY!– AND UNLOVINGLY!– SUGGESTS OTHERWISE! And furthermore, IT IS MY BELIEF, THAT THE “AGE OF MAJORITY LAWS/ AGE OF CONSENT LAWS (AND THROUGHOUT NORTH AMERICA!– AT LEAST!)” SHOULD BE EITHER DRAMATICALLY CHANGED TO REFLECT THE “REALITY” OF THE GOD OF ABRAHAM, ISAAC, AND JACOB!… OF JESUS CHRIST!… OF NATURE!… OF “MATURE MEMBERS OF OUR COMMUNITIES (THE GAINSAYING, ‘PSEUDO-ADULTS’, NOTWITHSTANDING!)”!… OF THE RIGHTS OF OUR “UNDERAGED (SO-CALLED!)” FEMALE AND MALE POPULATIONS!… AND… OF LOGIC!… OR SUCH BE THROWN OUT ALTOGETHER!
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    Lastly, some might contend that to allow such a “Christian”, “Natural”, and “Logical” Sexuality to flourish today, would be to open the floodgates of “UNDERAGE PORN EXPRESSION” on the Internet!
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    Let me ask the obvious: “Has society removed the ‘Age of Majority Porn’ from the Internet?… despite the ‘feigned Judaic/ Christian principles ‘FLOURISHING’ in our said ‘civilized communities’?” “Do YOU!– READER!– watch ‘Age of Majority Porn’?… but, then suggest, that ‘other types’ of ‘INTIMACY’ are ‘forboden’?” Maybe one’s contestation should be, that “Age of Majority Porn” should be removed from the Internet, ALTOGETHER!… rather, than contend that individuals have NO RIGHT to express some “sanctified”, “natural”, and “logical sexuality”! If “Age of Majority Porn” is ALRIGHT with you!… AND SOCIETY!… then the question (AND CONSTITUTIONAL CHALLENGE!) becomes one of simple “AGE DISCRIMINATION”! But, if “Age of Majority Porn” is NOT ALRIGHT with you!… AND SHOULD NOT EXIST IN SOCIETY (“FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION” NOTWITHSTANDING!)!… then the question (“LOGICAL QUESTION!”) becomes: “HOW HAVE SUCH ‘UNDERAGE ACTS OF CONSENTUAL INTIMACY (AND WHEREIN, SUCH IS INDEED THE CASE!)’, BECOME EQUATED WITH ‘ACTS OF PORN’?… AND ‘DEGENERACY’?” And, let us not forget, that it wasn’t too long ago that having sex with someone of a different race, was considered “DEGENERATE (i.e., by ‘CERTAIN ADULTS’!)”! But!… the list of discriminations have been many!… and, continues!
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    It is said, that, “…THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE!” [John 8, 31-32]… and… that, “…God has not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind…” [2 Timothy, 1:7].
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    Well… for some (and even for those professing Christ!) BEING BOUND IS A PREFERRED STATE OF EXISTENCE!… AND LIVING IN FEAR, IS DESIRED OVER THE POWER OF LOVE!… AND, OF POSSESSING A SOUND MIND!
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    Adams’ nakedness was not filth before God’s eyes!… nor, was King David’s, when King David danced before the Lord!… in praise!
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    For Christians, it is clear, that we are to be subject to that which is in authority (see Romans, Chapter 13:1-3). But!… it is also clear, that the PARAMOUNT AUTHORITY within a democratic country– at least!– is a country’s respective national constitution!… AND, WHICH INVARIABLY CONTAINS RIGHTS AND FREEDOMS! And so, to resist such!… and in keeping with Romans 13:1-3!… is to resist GOD’S AUTHORITY!… AND SPIRIT!
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    WITH HOPE!… FAITH!… AND “AGAPE LOVE (I.E., TRUE ‘CHRISTIAN LOVE’!)”!…
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    “THE BANE TO AGE OF MAJORITY HYPOCRITES!… AND, THEIR HYPOCRISY!”
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    Please!… no emails!
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    P.S.: I apologize– fellow netizen bloggers!– for the added “NEW PARA/ SPACE” nonsense!… but!… this Blog Hosting Service has deemed it within their “Right” to discriminate, re OUR use of paragraph spacing!

  • Sylvia van der Meer
    Apr 23, 2016 at 08:17 pm

    Well, Mr. Mayor. I ploughed through your convoluted narrative as best I could, and feel compelled to add my two cents worth.
    You claim that, since nature sees fit to achieve sexual maturity in girls by the age of 13 they should be able to choose to have sex and babies from that time forward. You even suggest this could (and should be allowed to) happen from age 10 in some cases.
    But I disagree. Humans are not the same as other animals, and neither Nature or your religious dogma has got it right – in terms of sexual maturity coinciding with physical and emotional maturity.

    In terms of physical maturity for child bearing, young adolescent girls (under the age of 16) do not have a fully mature pelvis. This makes for a much higher incidence of complications such as fistula, eclampsia, and psychological trauma from prolonged labour and the unbearable pain of trying to give birth with an immature body. Not to mention a much higher incidence of both maternal and infant death.

    In terms of one’s ability to make an informed choice about whether to have sex (with the possible consequences noted above), young adolescent girls will generally be too immature to make that decision. Their inexperience and the fact of their dependence on the grown-up world for food and shelter, makes them vulnerable to sexual coercion – i.e. a dependent young adolescent without free will is easy to coerce for obvious reasons.

    Let me put it simply. All humans are sensual beings and learn about masturbation at a very young age. We all know that sex feels good and a sexual response can be achieved through fondling, coercion, and even through force. A 13 year old may be curious or interested about sex, but we adults understand that it is better for her physically and mentally to wait for full physical maturity.

    Sexual intercourse is extremely intimate and — especially for a young female being penetrated by an older man who is only interested in his own gratification on her body —it is extremely invasive. Young females need our protection because their bodies are desirable to many men yet these girls cannot yet deal with sex physically (because of pregnancy repercussions) or mentally (because of immaturity and dependence)

    The age of consent in Canada is 16, and I believe for pornography it is 18 – although it may be 21 (as I think it should be). The reason a young woman should be this old is, again, because she should not be entering into pornography if she is still financially dependent or psychologically immature.

    So I suggest you stop basing your beliefs about female sexual maturity on “nature” and ridiculous religious dogma, since both have missed the mark in terms of when things should happen to girls. Mr. Kenneth Lanning’s view is absolutely correct.

  • sarah
    May 02, 2016 at 06:52 am

    i have a question ?
    so i have a friend who claims to be raped , a male. so the thing is the rape happen for like a year and he did not inform of it to anyone . the rape happen when he was 16 and the maid was the pepetrator who raped him in her room so like she brought him to her room and he claimed she raped him but i feel since there no threat and he went to the room without force shows that he consented to it because he didnt resist it or choose not to follow her . and because he was 16 i felt that at that age boys would easily get aroused as they are of that age of getting matured . so i cant tell whether he either is afraid to tell me that eas the truth or it really was rape ?

    • admin
      May 02, 2016 at 11:07 am

      The age of consent depends on the jurisdiction, but if your friend says he was raped, then it probably was not consensual, and his gender is entirely irrelevant. You should report this to the authorities and let them determine if a crime has taken place.

      • C.Z.
        May 09, 2016 at 11:58 am

        No offense, but this is the absolute minimum you should have said here.

        This person is basically a rape appologist that says boys automatically “want it”, because of how their body is shaped.

        That is the justification for almost ever rape ever.

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        This is real simple:

        Did they want to?
        Did they say no?

        Then it’s rape. Period.

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        Were they cohersed and humilated when they said no, until they finally did what they were told – Out of fear, guilt, or shame?

        That’s also rape.

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        Rape is sex you don’t consent to.

        It has nothing to do with what the person’s junk looks like.

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        Saying a guy wants it because of his penis, is like saying a girl wants it because of her boobs.

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        Why do you treat female rape apologists so delicately?

        Would you do the same for male rape apologists, as well?

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        In any case, I would say that bringing this to the authorities should be the victim’s own decision.

        What they truly need, is a less terrible friend.

    • C.Z.
      May 09, 2016 at 11:43 am

      If a girl simply follows a boy into a room, does that mean she automatically “wanted it”? Because that’s disgusting.

      Unwanted sex is unwated sex, no matter who’s doing it – and that’s rape.

      (This includes pressuring them, demeaning them for not wanting to, and not listening to them when they say “no”.)

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      Blaming the victim for unwanted sex, by assuming they wanted it because of the shape of their anatomy….

      That is one of the most evil and humilating things you can do to a person.

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      So no, I would say that you’re a sexist that thinks only men are “strong and capible” enough to be capible of such things….

      While also thinking that women are too “weak and feeble” to be capible of abuse.

      (Which is why when middle aged women, sexually abuse and torture small children, no one cares – much less if it happens to someone older.)

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      Abuse is about actions, not body parts.

      Your statements imply that you are a sexist rape appologist, that blames the victim for the shape of their body.

      That is evil and wrong, no matter who you do it too.

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      Also: As many boys will tell you, erections are often involuntary.

      Simply having one is not the same as consenting to sex.

      Just like a woman being “wet” is not the same as wanting sex either. That is also often involuntary.

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      Please think about the horrible things you’re saying, before you harm your “friend” any further.

      Saying this to a female rape victim is not acceptable.

      Saying this to a male rape victim is not acceptable either.

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      Assuming that either sex automatically “wants it”, because of their gender, has been the excuse of rapists for thousands of years.

      This is unacceptable. Your friend deserves better than you.

    • Niklas D. Hansen
      Mar 20, 2017 at 09:42 pm

      Menkind is always controversial, that’s how we put “live” in our puny miserable “lives”.. We’re the worst creature ever, surely.. with over 500 mil. psychopaths to date roaring the earth, doing inbred, child porn, polygamy, inter species sex, drugs and whatnot.. and the rest are just crazy ignorants.. most of them working their arses off for those puny deviants.. It’s time to wake up and end all this madness.. It’s not too late to reconsider aswell, it’s alright to be a hypocrite in the moment of need to do what’s right.. not for ourselves.. but for nature and the future!

      Wow, it sounded pretty cool, ay? Sorry to dodge the question, just wanted to kill some time, this matter not much for me, since I hate every human being almost inclusive myself.. have a day.. and stay out of shit as much as possible.. It’s not too late to have a bit of self dignity before the dawnfall..

      At least say bye in a moral manner..

  • C.Z.
    May 09, 2016 at 12:03 pm

    Having a penis is not a prerequisite for rape or abuse.

    Having a vagina is not a prerequsite for being a victim.

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    Abuse is about actions, not body parts.

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  • skye
    Jun 07, 2016 at 08:40 pm

    Eye opening. I’m sure the cohersion and unwanted but tolerated sex is much higher in men than women, something not often spoken about as the media encourages constant desire for sex in men which is completely unrealistic.

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  • Scott
    Dec 22, 2016 at 12:44 pm

    I was raped by two women when I was 16. Raped is the right word but there was no force involved. The women knew each other so I am sure they knew about each other’s exploits. It is difficult to explain why it was traumatic for me and how it destroyed my life. I never knew that women much older than me had desires for boys. I closed my eyes and kind of played dead. I didn’t budge. The shock of what was happening was tremendous. I don’t think people realize that. Now that I am older and wiser I view these women as vicious aggressors. I now see what I didn’t see when I was just a boy. Her accidentally spilling something on my pants and then her insistence that I take them off so she can wash them is a sure way for any woman to molest a teen boy. This is a tremendously underrated phenomenon in our society. Boys are brought up thinking that these women have no interest in them. Lots of anger I have for many different reasons. They were well educated and financially well off. One woman was was in her 30s the other in her 60s (yes, 60s). The 60 years only once. The 30 years many times over several months. She did not hide me from anyone. I met several of her friends and not one of them ever helped me. They had to know what was going on. I met her sister and I never understood why she was so nasty and cold to me. I just figured she didn’t like me. But now I understand. She knew what her sister was doing with me and she didn’t approve. I’m angry for not being properly prepared in life for what was around me. The greatest defense a boy can have against any abuser is a real education about women.

  • 548645
    Jan 01, 2017 at 05:22 pm

    Female privilege. Women are sickeningly allowed to get away with it.

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